
The Absentee Family
By Storybird

29 Nov, 2023

The day started off just like any other for me, Aldo(A.J) Burrows. At 13 years old, I was used to the mundane routine of my life. After all, living with my granda had its own set of predictable patterns.

I walked into my first class of the day, expecting nothing different. But as soon as I laid my eyes on the new teacher, my heart dropped. "Da, y r u here?" I asked, shocked.

He looked at me, and for a moment, I thought I saw a flicker of recognition in his eyes. But he quickly ignored me, introducing himself to the class as Mr. Burrows.

I couldn't help but laugh at the absurdity of the situation. "He's my absentee da," I said, but the comment was met with silence.

One of my classmates, a notorious bully, decided to make a joke at my expense. "Mr. B is an absentee dad bcuz ur an ugly child & mistake," he jeered.

My da, Mr. Burrows, ignored the remark. I was hurt, but not surprised. "Srsly da, ur gonna let him bully me?" I asked, but again, I was met with silence.

I decided to confront my ma, who had recently taken up the position of the new principal. "At least I can report bullying to her," I thought, "love you da."

As I walked into the principal's office, I couldn't help but feel a pang of disappointment. After all, my parents were supposed to be my protectors, not my absentee figures.

The meeting with my ma didn't go as planned. She listened to my complaints but offered no comfort or assurance. It was clear that her priorities lay elsewhere.

Over the next few weeks, things didn't get any better. The bullying continued, and my parents remained distant. I felt lost and alone.

One day, after another incident at school, I decided to take matters into my own hands. I couldn't rely on my parents to protect me. I needed to stand up for myself.

I confronted the bully after school one day. I was scared, but I had reached my breaking point. "Stop picking on me," I said, my voice shaking.

To my surprise, he backed down. "Alright, Burrows, whatever," he muttered, walking away. I couldn't believe it. I had stood up for myself, and it had worked.

Over time, I learned to handle my problems on my own. I felt stronger and more confident. I still wished my parents were more involved, but I realized I couldn't change them.

Eventually, I began to accept my situation. I realized that I couldn't rely on my parents for everything. I had to be my own advocate, my own protector.

Despite the challenges, I managed to make it through the school year. I learned a lot about myself, and about the kind of person I wanted to be.

I promised myself that if I ever had kids, I would be there for them. I would protect them, support them, and most importantly, listen to them.

I understood now that family wasn't just about blood ties. It was about being there for each other, through thick and thin. And I was determined to create a family that embodied that.

The journey wasn't easy, but it was necessary. I grew up faster than most kids my age, but I wouldn't trade my experiences for anything. They made me who I am today.

I am Aldo (A.J) Burrows, a survivor, a fighter, and a protector. I may have been raised by an absentee family, but I refuse to continue that cycle.

I learned that I am not defined by my circumstances, but by my actions and choices. And I choose to rise above, to be better, to break the cycle.

It's not the life I would have chosen for myself, but it's the life I've got. And I've learned to make the most of it. To take the bitter with the sweet and to keep moving forward.

In the end, I am grateful for the hardships I've faced. They've shown me what I'm capable of, and they've shaped me into a person I can be proud of.

I've learned to turn the negatives into positives and to never let my past define my future. I've learned to be resilient, to be strong, and to never give up.

I'm not the same scared kid who walked into that classroom all those months ago. I've grown, I've learned, and I've changed. And for that, I am grateful.

Life continues to throw challenges my way, but I'm ready to face them. I know I have the strength to overcome anything. After all, I am Aldo (A.J) Burrows.

I take a deep breath and look towards the future. It's uncertain, full of challenges and opportunities. But I know one thing for sure: I'm ready for whatever comes my way.