
Why Do People Get Spankings?
By Storybird

02 Oct, 2023

On a quiet afternoon, Sarah, a curious 7-year-old girl, was playing with her dolls when a thought struck her. She dropped her toys and went searching for her mom.

She found her mom, Emily, in the kitchen, busy preparing dinner. Sarah tugged at Emily's skirt, her little face showing a mixture of confusion and curiosity.

"Mommy," Sarah began, her voice a little hesitant, "why do people get spankings when they do bad things?" Emily paused, looking down at her daughter.

She sighed, putting down the knife and wiping her hands. "Well, honey," Emily began, trying to choose her words carefully, "sometimes, it's a way for parents to discipline their children."

Sarah frowned, not quite understanding. "But why would they want to hurt their children?" she asked, her voice filled with innocence.

Emily smiled at Sarah's question. "It's not about hurting, dear. It's about teaching. Parents want their children to learn what is right and wrong," she explained.

"But mom, isn't there another way to teach?" Sarah asked, her green eyes full of curiosity. Emily nodded, "Yes, there are other ways too. And each family chooses what's best for them."

Emily could see that Sarah was still not satisfied. She decided to tell her about a time when her own mother had disciplined her.

"Once, when I was about your age," Emily began, "I did something really naughty. I ate a whole box of cookies that grandma had baked for a party."

"And what happened?" Sarah asked, her eyes wide with interest. "Well, when grandma found out, she was very disappointed. And she decided to spank me," Emily answered.

Sarah gasped, "She spanked you?" Emily nodded, "Yes, she did. But she explained why she was doing it. She wanted me to understand that my actions had consequences."

"Did it hurt?" Sarah asked, her voice shaky. Emily shook her head, "No, it didn't hurt physically. But it did hurt to know that I had disappointed her."

"So, the spanking was to make you feel bad?" Sarah questioned. "In a way, yes. It was to make me realize my mistake and ensure I didn't repeat it," Emily responded.

"And did you eat all the cookies again?" Sarah asked, her eyes sparkling with curiosity. Emily laughed, "No, honey. I learned my lesson. I never did that again."

Sarah seemed to ponder over this. "So, spanking is not about hurting but about teaching?" she asked, to which Emily nodded in agreement.

Emily picked Sarah up and sat her on the kitchen counter. "But remember, honey, it's always better to learn from our mistakes without needing a spanking," Emily said, hugging her.

Sarah nodded, hugging her mom back. "I understand, mom. I'll always try to learn from my mistakes," she promised, her eyes shining with determination.

Emily kissed Sarah's forehead, her heart filled with love. "I know you will, sweetheart. And remember, it's okay to make mistakes as long as we learn from them," she said.

Their conversation ended with a warm hug. Sarah went back to playing with her dolls, her young mind filled with a new understanding.

Emily watched her go, a soft smile on her face. She was proud of her little girl's maturity. She knew Sarah was growing up, understanding the world around her.

As Emily went back to cooking, she reflected on their conversation. She hoped she had been able to explain things well to Sarah.

The rest of the day passed peacefully. Sarah played with her dolls, and Emily finished her chores. The house was filled with love and understanding.

That night, as Emily tucked Sarah into bed, she kissed her goodnight. "Remember, honey, we learn from our mistakes," she whispered, hugging Sarah tight.

Sarah smiled sleepily at her mom. "I will, mom. I promise," she murmured before drifting off to sleep. Emily watched her, her heart filled with love.

As Emily closed the bedroom door, she felt content. She knew she had done her best in explaining a difficult concept to her young daughter.

She knew that raising a child was not an easy task, but moments like these made it all worth it. She was confident that Sarah would grow up to be a kind and understanding person.

Emily walked back to the kitchen, her mind at peace. She knew she had a big responsibility as a mother, but she was ready to face any challenge that came her way.

As the day ended, Emily felt a sense of accomplishment. She had not just prepared a meal and taken care of her home, but also nurtured her daughter's understanding of life.

Emily knew that Sarah would have many more questions as she grew up. And she was ready to answer them all, guiding her daughter through the journey of life.

As Emily turned off the kitchen lights and headed to her room, she knew that tomorrow would bring new learnings, new adventures, and new opportunities to grow as a family.

And so, in the quiet of the night, Emily made a promise to herself - to always be there for Sarah, to guide her, teach her, and love her unconditionally.

As she drifted off to sleep, Emily knew that she was not just Sarah's mother but also her friend, her guide, and her biggest supporter. And that was the most fulfilling role she could ever play.

And Sarah, even in her sleep, knew she was loved and cared for. She had a mother who was ready to explain the world to her, one question at a time.

The bond between Emily and Sarah grew stronger with each passing day. Their love and understanding for each other was a beautiful testament to the unique relationship between a mother and her child.

And so, life continued in their little home, filled with love, warmth, and the promise of endless learning. A mother and daughter, growing together, one question at a time.